Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Change of Plans...Again

All good things must come to an end, right? Well how about just a little pause. I have been kind of avoiding posting this because I don´t really like thinking about it but it has to come out now! I am moving home. Now before you all start to fret, I am still happily engaged to the hottest Chilean out there and we are still getting married for time and all eternity at the end of the year! But, we have to take a little break from all of the fun we have been having and try to be adults now.

In order for Pablo to come to the States so we can get married, live, etc. he has to have a Visa (which means lots of fees and waiting 6 to 8 months) As we started making decisions like where we want to raise our family, live our lives, etc. it was obvious that in the States things are just a little better. So the next step is getting Pablo over there. Because I can make more money in the US to help pay for this nice little Visa, I am moving home. Yup. Blackfoot, here I come! (Never thought I would say that again...) And the sad reality is that Pablo will be here still. It is going to be a rough few months, but we know that in the end it will all be worth it.

So I hope that answers some questions too...I know a few of you have asked me where we are getting married, if we have a date, etc. and I haven´t really answered because we weren´t sure. But basically we can´t pick a date until Pablo´s visa is approved and we have NO idea when that will be. So stay posted for more when we get some answers. And if you have any good ideas of where I can get a job around the Blackfoot/Idaho Falls area I am open for ideas!

16 comments:

Drew & Stephanie said...

Wow! I bet that was a tough decision! But you guys will make it through I am sure and your relationship will be stronger for it! I wish you the very best! While your in Idaho if you pass through Utah anytime you better let me know so we can do lunch or something!

lacey said...

oh what a hard decision! Way to go!! our thoughts and prayers will be with you two!! Please let me know if there is anything we can do to help. Remember I am just in IF so just a jump, skip, and hop away from blackfoot!!

Ami Paulsen said...

Good luck Becki! Jacob and I spent our entire relationship long distance so I kind of know how you feel (except it was only a 2 hour plane ride away). It's hard, but it makes it all the better when you are together forever! :)

Kayla said...

Well, I'm glad you're coming back, but I'm sure you'll miss Chile and of course PABLO! Hopefully his visa will come through as fast as possible and you guys can get married sooner than later. We need to do lunch when you get back!!! Seriously!

Kurt and Kristy said...

Oh man!! Well Im just glad to hear you and Pablo are still planning on getting married! I know it will be hard but think of the end result! What's a few months compared to eternity!? Good luck and maybe that means I can see you in August!! Love you and good luck!

Carlos and Janese said...

I'm so excited you're coming back, though I know exactly how you feel leaving the love of your life on the other side of the equator. You'll have to come meet Orden some time, and don't worry, the next few months will seem like an eternity, but then all of the sudden the wait is over and you never have to say good bye again!! (before you know it you'll be approaching your second anniversary and maybe even have a kid to show for it!!! :) If you need any help or just need to talk you have my email and number!!! Besos!

Cristina said...

Hola Becki: No se me hace raro que hayan pensado en devolverse. Yo creo que de todas formas para Uds los jovenes hay mas futuro aqui en Los Estados Unidos que en cualquier otra parte. Mi hijo tambien hizo lo mismo tuvo que dejar en Colombia a su prometida y venirse solo y tan pronto consiguio un trabajo estable hizo la peticion de ella como su prometida, lleno un mundo de papeles pero al cabo de un ano ella viajo con visa rosada o sea de "prometida"y a los pocos dias se casaron aqui. Despues hay que esperar un tiempo para que le salga la residencia. Buena suerte. Abrazos, Cristina.

MarshandKrissy said...

Are you sure you want to go to Blackfoot? Come to AZ!!!! You will like it much better! ;-) I'm so excited for you Beckalicious and know you will be able to do anything and make anything happen. You always have been able to.

Diane said...

How sad!! But I know everything will work for the both of you. Shawn and I were apart for 5 months or more. But it all worked out!!! And I know brother did the same thing and asked for my sister in law to come to the US. I think she was able to get her Visa in like 1 year. My brother worked as well to pay for all the fees. I know there is alot of paperwork to be done. Good Luck with everything!!! I know it will be great!! I guess we will see you soon. Well...whenever we are in Blackfoot.

Melissa said...

Becki~I was thinking about you the other day and wondering how things were going. The other day when I was cleaning my room I found something that had come in the mail for you and I forgot to forward it on. Sorry about that! Maybe when you come back to Idaho we could get together and chat up. It would be good to see you. Take care and good luck with everything!

Katy said...

Oh wow, lot's has been going on with you lately!! I'm impressed with your decisions... it's very grown up of ya! I've got utter and complete faith that things will work out for the best... you're amazing and deserve everything!

ashley said...

One more thing......after you write down that contact info above, will you erase that comment so that my number and stuff isn't floating around for all to see. I should have sent it in an email. Oops. Thanks.

Oh, and my wife says thanks for looking at the craft blog and come back anytime.

Jake and Tricia Jones: said...

Beckita-I am sorry that you have to move to Blackfoot. It is always a hard reality to face when life brings you back to a place that you kind of hoped that you'd never have to return to. I am a little selfish though because I am kind of excited to play with you again, and Clark needs to meet his Tia. I will try to keep my eyes and ears open for job openings. I will do some serious praying for the visa. I know that things can take quite a while. Maybe our dear little Jaketh could help y'all put things in order when you get back.

Jake and Tricia Jones: said...

Beckita-I am sorry that you have to move to Blackfoot. It is always a hard reality to face when life brings you back to a place that you kind of hoped that you'd never have to return to. I am a little selfish though because I am kind of excited to play with you again, and Clark needs to meet his Tia. I will try to keep my eyes and ears open for job openings. I will do some serious praying for the visa. I know that things can take quite a while. Maybe our dear little Jaketh could help y'all put things in order when you get back.

Kelly said...

Good luck job searching and with all the Visa stuff! i hope it all works out very quickly for you!! I love your cute picture on the right side of your blog, at the top. So cute and in love!! Being apart is hard, I'm not gonna lie, but totally doable and now you won't have all those temptations from Satan that WILL come (if they haven't already). Being engaged is different from just dating and he like turns up the pressure or something! okay enough about that. I'm happy for you and sad. I'm excited you're getting married though! it WILL all work out!! =)

pabloide said...

te amoo demasiado eres la persona mas increible y maravillosa que he visto, gracias por todo la felicidad que me traes te amoooooooooo